How To Bond With Girls You Have Just Met

This article will discuss the seduction skill of building rapport and bonding with girls you have just met in order to make them like you, sexually attracted to you and get them to feel as if they have just found the man of their dreams. Do you want to be that man?

Most guys know that it is rather hard to build some kind of rapport and bonding with a girl they have just met. I mean, you know almost nothing about this girl and she does not know you all that well either since the both of you have just met, so how can an emotional bonding be established given the awkward situation.

Well, here is something that you can do and that is to create an illusion that the bonding is already present. You see, bonding in general means building an affinity with another person based on the similarity of self expression and subjects of interest.

Think about it, people who have close bonding usually share common traits, interests, personality quirks, and ways of thinking or common objectives. In other words, the bonding increases when the two people have more similarity in personality traits or ideals. Birds of the same feather flock together because each can see a bit of himself in everyone else.

So how do you create bonding with a girl you have just met? Well, start building instant bonding by creating an air of familiarity and similarity. This may be new to you, but creating bonding is a huge factor in attracting women to you because a girl’s psyche is largely governed by her subconscious mind. So once a woman gets to bond with you, she will like you very much and will feel that you are someone she can trust and cherish. You will come across as a very sexy guy.

Here is how you can build sexual bonding with women. This seduction skill will involve both verbal and body language which can be honed to perfection with some practice.

Start with observing and listening to her tone and pace of voice and the try to match it when you speak. If her tone is more of a serious nature, then you follow accordingly. Listen to how she punctuates her words and sentences and you do likewise. The idea here is to make her hear and feel from the way you speak that the both of you have very much in common.

The next thing that you can do is to observe her gestures and mannerism when she speaks. Observe the way she tilts her head, touch her hair or clasp her hands and when she leans forward towards you or back. When it is your turn to speak, apply the same mannerism, tone of voice and even breathing that is similar to hers.

You see, if you look around at your closest friends, they all have the tendency to think, speak and behave alike. This is because over the years, old friends have adopted each other’s mannerisms through shared experiences.

Think of the times when you try to start a subject of conversation and your friends just simply joined in so very naturally on the subject matter or the times when you were humming a tune in your head and a good friend starts to whistle the same tune. Coincident? Certainly not.

The best part is that this mirroring technique is not only confined to the art of seduction in creating bonding with girls, but the technique is also used by great salesmen, politicians and public speakers to create bonding with people at large. That means that you can use this technique on anyone you want to establish bonding with.

Author Bio: Chris Chew is a sought after fitness and relationship consultant who counts models, actors and other celebrities as his clients. Read his free articles at Art of flirting seduction and Human pheromones sexual attraction

Category: Dating
Keywords: create bonding, art of seduction, girls