Too many men stumble and bumble around, choking on their words when they encounter a beautiful woman. They act like fools or worse, idiots, when they come across a woman they find attractive. Why is that? Are you putting a woman on a pedestal she doesn’t belong on simply based on her looks? That is […]

The other day a friend of mine sent me an email saying his wife was running in the Susan G. Komen race to raise money for breast cancer. It just so happens that another mutual friend of ours has a mother who is currently undergoing treatment for this scary disease. A decision was made by […]

There is an exercise I came across a few years ago that involves visualization as a tool to become the man or woman you dream of becoming. I call it “Your Inner Stud.” Now before you laugh too hard about this, remember that you can tailor this name to anything you want, but what it […]

The majority of men do not know how to compliment a woman. I would say that 9 out of 10 men get it dead wrong. They have no clue how to really make a woman feel special. And that one guy, who does, stands out from the crowd and has a much better chance of […]

The eternal question is where to take that gal on your first date. In the past, it was easy. Guys told girls to dinner and a movie. That is no longer the case for several reasons. Why spend a ton of money when you don’t know if you are going to hit it off or […]

She was totally hot and you got her phone number at the bar last night. But it has happened in the past where you have called her and she has flaked. Or you have set up a date and she doesn’t show. Or she ignores your text messages. This has happened to the best of […]

There are many ways to build your social circle, which really can be important if you are trying to learn how to meet women. When I moved to New York City only knowing one person, I made a point to say hello to everyone I came across: the doormen, the bartenders, the bouncers, the coffee […]

If you are struggling in the dating world there may be a chance that you are not in touch with your masculine side. Oftentimes people think to be a man, they have to act like jerks. This is the farthest thing from the truth. Being masculine and being a jerk are not synonymous. Being a […]

It probably is: “Hi, how’s it going?” What, you say? I don’t have to memorize a bunch of clever, witty, humorous lines or magic tricks? No. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t. It definitely helps to have something funny to say to break the ice on occasion. And a clever magic trick is always guaranteed […]

I don’t know why, but some guys get embarrassed that they turn to others for dating advice. They feel inept if they are reading books on dating tips or articles on site like this. I’m here to tell you that nobody, and I mean nobody, is born with the natural ability to attract women. The […]