She’s everything you’ve ever dreamed of, but there’s just one catch: she has a boyfriend. But, wait. All is not lost, you think. She is giving you the look. You know the one, the look that says “If I could just ditch this guy, you would be the one who could make me happy.” You […]

A lot of guys share stories with me about how this particular girl they like calls them or texts them all the time, wants to have lunch or dinner with them. These women want to hang out with these guys. They ask the guy out to lunch. They strike up a conversation. They laugh at […]

The one thing I hear over and over again about texting girls is that somewhere along the line the communication goes south for the winter. Somewhere along the line, the girl either drops the text thread and ignores you, or else something crops up that is a misunderstanding because obviously texting is a written language […]

A beautiful woman I know lives in Santa Monica, California and is absolutely intrigued by men who dress nice. I was talking to her the other day and she was describing this mysterious neighbor of hers that she was fascinated with. She’s only lived in her townhome about a month and is meeting new people […]

Men who act wimpy and needy and supplicating are probably the biggest turn offs to women. It doesn’t matter how good looking they are, if they seem desperate, they are going to lose. For some reason, men tend to fall into this type of behavior way too easy. Maybe it is a result of dealing […]

Top Ten Biggest Turn Offs: Biggest Turn Offs #1 1. Whine. Women hate men who whine. I don’t care if you are whining inside, fine. Don’t do it out loud. Whining is the opposite of alpha male behavior. Biggest Turn Offs #2 2. Cling. You know what I’m talking about. You go to a party […]

She’s hot for you. Then she’s not. It seems like the most dropped balls in the dating world tend to do with texting. Texting has changed the way people date and interact dramatically. I see repeatedly guys who are swimming along just fine and then are given the cold shoulder. It usually works like this: […]

Men often think that the biggest hurdle in meeting women is nabbing her phone number. Not true. The larger hurdle is getting her to meet you somewhere for the first time. You can call it a date, a meeting, or a hook up, but unless that happens, having her phone number is essentially useless. The […]

Prove You’re A Catch There are a lot of fish in the sea. Just like there are millions of women you can date, women have those same options for finding men. The key is to stand out from the masses and convey without words that you are unlike the majority of men out there. Remember […]

It’s the eternal question for every single male out there: What do women really want. And the answer is confoundingly complicated and yet simple at the same time: women want real men. So just what is a real man? A real man is one who embodies alpha male traits. But here’s the thing: too many […]