When your boyfriend tells you he needs a break, it is a shock and your first instinct is to try to talk him out of it. But you should be agreeing with him. Why would you want to agree with him when it means you will be without the man you love? Because if he is upset enough to need a break, he feels something is wrong in the relationship. Even if you could talk him out of taking a break, the same problem would be there, making matters worse. When you agree to the break you are showing your boyfriend that you are strong enough to respect his wishes.

Now that you have agreed to the breakup, you must have no contact with your ex boyfriend for a few weeks. By agreeing with him you made him wonder if you were glad to get rid of him. In a way, this is a form of rejection, and men do not handle rejection well. The minute he was gone he probably started having second thoughts about the breakup. By staying away from him you will make that doubt grow. If you chase him, call him or email him, you will ruin everything. He has to have time to experience his life without you. That is the only way he can start to miss you.

As time passes and you make no effort to get him back he will become afraid that he has lost you. This is another trait men have, they cannot stand to lose what they feel is theirs. To further his feeling that he might lose you, go out with your friends and be seen having a good time. When your ex boyfriend said he needed a break, he did not intend to lose you. Now seeing you living your life so well without him, will make him wonder if he can live his life without you.

When your ex boyfriend starts to have these feelings, he will realize that he needs you back in his life and he will try to make contact with you. This is what you wanted from the start, but you cannot make it too easy for him. You need to show him that he cannot just run off and pout any time he feels like it. The best thing you can do is exactly what you did to get him the first time. Now that he feels he needs you back in his life he is attracted to you again. This is what got things started when he first met you. He was attracted to you and you appeared to be a challenge.

The reason you were a challenge, was you seemed unattainable. So you do the same now. Do not answer his phone calls, emails or text messages. Make him chase you again. Men love a good challenge and chase, so he will be in his glory. Of course, you cannot carry this too far. You will have to let him catch you before he becomes discouraged. Just make him work hard enough to appreciate you and he will not be so quick to need a break again.

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