Let’s face it: If you are a single guy, you have a limited number of ways to meet women. Friends of friends are golden. Parties are great, as well, but sometimes after a long week of work, you just won’t to go chill with your friends and have a drink. And guess what? So do other single people. So although meeting women in bars has a bad reputation, there is a good chance that there is a woman there for the exact same reason: hoping to meet someone she likes. If you really want to learn how to meet women at the bar there are some important things to remember.

1. Be sure you can hold your booze. Don’t get drunk. Keep your alcohol intake under control. Try to have no more than one drink an hour, pacing yourself throughout the night. Make sure you know what your limit is. Some bigger guys stay completely sober with two drinks cialis cheap an hour. Whatever your limit is, stick to it. The biggest turn off on the planet to most women is a stumbling, slurring drunk guy hitting on them.

2. Don’t go out with the goal of meeting a woman. Make your goal to have a good time with your friends and keep meeting a woman as a nice bonus. If your main objective of the evening is to meet a woman, you will not have fun and will come off as desperate. Enjoy the company of whomever you are out with, but do keep in mind and be open to meeting women. When women see you having fun with your friends, that makes you appear more attractive.

3. Be playful. Meeting a woman is not a life or death situation. Make sure that you keep things in perspective. You are there to have fun. Whether that attractive blonde gives you her phone number or not is inconsequential in the bigger scheme of things. Having a relaxed, playful attitude is not only good for you, but makes you more appealing to women, as well. Joke and laugh with the woman and truly enjoy her company without worrying about what will happen next (i.e., whether she will give you her number or go out with you someday).

4. Learn about body language. When you see a woman looking at you across the room, know enough about reading body language to tell if she just casually glanced your way or whether her look was an invitation to approach her. Buy or borrow a book on body language and study it. This will also help you learn how to have body language that projects confidence, such as maintaining a wide stance, taking up room at the bar and other nonverbal gestures and signals that equal charisma.

5. Make a move. If you do get into a good conversation with someone you are interested in dating or seeing at another time, don’t hesitate to say so. You don’t have to use some tried-and-true pick up line. All you have to do is say how much you’ve enjoyed talking to the woman and would like to continue the conversation at a later date. If she is interested, then it really is that easy.

Author Bio: Bill has been studying how to approach women for the last 5 years in NYC and is a pickup artist who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: Top 5 Ways to Meet Women at a Bar.

Category: Advice
Keywords: dating, meeting women, how to pick up women, how to approach women