When I read the comments and posts on the forums, I have seen a common thread lately. It seems there are a lot of women out there who are playing games with me. They lead men on to the extent that they are asking you to grab them in intimate ways in public and then either blow the guy off or go hang out with his best friend.

That needs to change.

If you are a true alpha male, you can set the rules and control the game.

In these other instances, she is just toying with you.

Here are ways to make sure you maintain alpha male status in whatever interactions you have with others:

– Remain aloof. That means that you never want to act desperate for a woman or her body. Maintain an attitude of nonchalance. Project the vibe that you can take her or leave her. And really mean it and believe it.

– Make sure you keep the right perspective about the women on the dating scene. There are millions of women out there you can date, so don’t set your sights or all your hopes on just one of them. Instead, remember that you are the one who is picking and being choosy. You are the one deciding whether you want to spend time with her or not.

– Date more than one woman at a time. Until you find the woman you are ready to propose to within moments, you need to make sure you are dating more than one woman. I recommend that you see five women at a time. That way you don’t come across needy or desperate.

– You set the mood and tone and you decide whether you touch her or not and under what circumstances. Make sure any touching that is in intimate places is done in private. Otherwise, it is just a game because it sure won’t escalate in a public place and she’s probably just playing you.

– Control your environment. Take charge and leave a party if it is boring. Round up all your friends and tell them you know of a better, cooler time, even if it is back at your small apartment. You are the party. You are the fun. If you develop this attitude, you will become the charismatic one.

– Have strong opinions even if they differ from everyone around you. Don’t be rude or insulting, but don’t be afraid to be different.

* Make sure you pick up a book on body language. Study it for two different reasons. The first is to learn how to read a girl’s body language. That way you will be able to tell if she is interested in you without her saying a word. The second important reason to memorize a book like this is that you will learn how to hold yourself in a manner that screams self-confidence. It’s all about how you sit, stand, and move. You can say more without opening your mouth. You can also convey interest in women this way.

Bill has been at the Pick Up Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to find a girlfriend. The original article can be found here: Alpha Male Rules to Attract Women.

Bill Preston has been studying personal development and dating advice for the past 7 years and is a guest instructor at the top Pick Up Artist Boot camp in NYC. He loves sharing his experience and expertise with other men looking to improve their lives. Find out more at http://www.puaforums.com

Author Bio: Bill has been at the Pick Up Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to find a girlfriend. The original article can be found here: Alpha Male Rules to Attract Women.

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